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Looks like I'll be around for quite some time still. Chemo held the cancer back and my Oncologist is very pleased. He says I look very well and that the cancers are still very small. So I'll have some time off and then back on chemo. Blood tests every 2 months to check. His guess was that my prognosis is the same as last year, another 18 months is quite possible. Who knows, if things go well, maybe more. In any case I'll see 82, Christmas, and the inauguration of the next American president - two pleasant things at least! Doug Wellertalk16:43, 7 March 2024 (UTC)[reply]
My best wishes for continued improvement over the ongoing treatment...but is looking forward to the inauguration of the next president a bit tongue in cheek? Sweetpool50 (talk) 17:35, 7 March 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, this is great news! I'm so happy to hear it (and let's hope against hope that the election results will be good news too). --Tryptofish (talk) 22:51, 7 March 2024 (UTC)[reply]
That's the only news that has brought a glow to my heart today. Forget about setting your sights on catching the outcome of the McDonald vs Bidet rope-the-dope battle on Nov 4, 24, far too shortsighted. Think of the long term, and do us all a favour by hanging in here at least till Nov.4 2028. Best Nishidani (talk) 08:00, 8 March 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I am thrilled by this news. Know you are continuously on my mind. Here's to the wholeness that I hope takes root and blossoms in you, my friend. --ARoseWolf14:57, 8 March 2024 (UTC)[reply]
That's cheered me up enormously. And on International Women's Day, big thanks too, to your wife, who I'm sure is the biggest element in your progress. And don't forget the NHS! (but one thing you can safely ignore, and should, is the US presidential election) --NSH001 (talk) 19:18, 8 March 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Awwww Doug, just read this about you and want you to know that it is very moving and I wish you all the best. There is a touching poem called Chemotherapy by Julia Darling that you might find a comfort to read, if you don't know it already. Take care x It is nice you have entranced into my life :-) The Nookster (talk) 07:51, 5 June 2024 (UTC)[reply]
@Joe Roe and The Nookster: Thanks but it didn't help as much as hoped, see below. Starting a different chemo, one I had between my 2 ops in 2022. Nasty stuff, weakens me a lot, hurts fingers', no cold drinks or food, pills dangerous to touch, takes quite a while to recover after the 3 months. Luckily I've got my diary from that time. Should have started last week but had to postpone as I need dental work which I can't have during chemo so getting it on the 4th of July, hopefully a good omen for this American! Still, I'll work through it even if I can't get back to where i am now. I hope to be around for at least another year. Doug Wellertalk09:47, 5 June 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Ah so sorry, I should read timestamps more carefully. I don't know if I've ever mentioned but I helped look after my dad through his (terminal) cancer and I can well remember how maddeningly up and down it was. I hope you have more good news to hear yet. – Joe (talk) 09:58, 5 June 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Hi Doug, thanks for the correction and update about where you are at. hopefully the 4th of July here in Britain with be a special day too! I will now being thinking of us getting a change of government and, more importantly you and your teeth :-) Take care. Hope the poems helps x The Nookster (talk) 10:12, 5 June 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Hey Doug, not sure where you're at in your journey these days, but I wanted to let you know (again maybe?) how much I've appreciated your contributions and comments here on the project. Just a smol gratitude while there's time. Folly Mox (talk) 17:57, 2 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Hi Doug. I noticed you hadn't updated us so I'm checking in to see how you're doing. I hope you were able to have something warm and comforting for the nausea, like hot cuppas or homemade chicken soup (there's a Thai ginger rice chicken soup I fall back on when I'm not feeling well). Have you recovered OK from the treatment? I do hope your prognosis is good. Best wishes, (Fionaussie (talk)) 19:03, 29 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
User:Fionaussie Thanks. I'm feeling pretty well right now, much stronger physically and my wife says much stronger mentally. I see my oncologist first week of January and hopefully will get a prognosis. But it will be months, not years, I'm sure. But as I've said before, better the cancer than slowly and miserably dying of Parkinson's and being a heavy burden on my wife. Doug Wellertalk09:09, 30 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Sorry Doug, it seems I got confused with the dates in this thread. So I'm striking part of my previous comment. But stay tough ! Rsk6400 (talk) 13:39, 30 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Cancer update - being offered palliative care (chemo), incurable
I'll see an oncologist in a couple of weeks to discuss chemo and to ask about my prognosis. Exercising as much as I can but mainly on my treadmill, 3 times a day for a mile so each time, only about 2mph. Calf muscles are the main problem, doing exercises prescribed by a physiotherapist. But not walking outside as the painful calf and thigh muscles don't go away and as I've twice had to stop and call for a pickup, safer to stay inside, especially with my Parkinson's. I'll soldier on! Doug Wellertalk16:05, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
God bless Doug, hope you know how many people are blessed to at least call you an internet friend, and Im sure many more offline. nableezy - 17:19, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, my best wishes in this journey. I'm not good at dealing with this shit. How I can identify with "the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak." We older dudes feel the pull of destiny, and it ain't pretty. Just make life comfortable. Don't overdo anything, even the exercise (and I'm a PT). Moderation in all things. You don't have to drink the whole bottle of OZV Zinfandel in one sitting, but do enjoy the finer things in life. Good wine, truffles, chocolate, books, movies, whatever. Now is the time to aim for quality, not quantity/longevity. Hang in there brother. Feel free to email me. When dealing with my own cancer ordeal, I often resorted to gallows humor. The staff in ICU and ER were especially understanding. I'd say: "I'm going to get "CC & DNR" tattooed on my chest." -- Valjean (talk) (PING me) 17:48, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Stay strong and hang in there, man. Sending you all the good vibes I can muster (hey, WP:FRINGE or not, it can't hurt, lol). Heiro17:59, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I think it is most important at some point to just enjoy the moment as much as you can and to enjoy life in general as it goes on, without trying to determine how long it will go on for, since that determination is really out of our hands, no? In other words, the life we live, I believe, has to be good and enjoyable for a long as it goes on. That is the most important, in my view. Hoping this may help a bit somehow, I wish you also much strength and courage in the jouney ahead. warshy(¥¥)18:33, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
What Tryp said. I was down in your ^former neck of the woods just recently for the first time as an adult. Got to see a wild alligator for the first time, along with some other fauna. Miami-Dade is one of the best places in the country for birds - I imagine you can see quite a lot out your window, compared to here in NY? At least here there's a zoo across the street. The only animal it has is a dog, though. It's a pretty shih-tzu. — Rhododendritestalk \\ 19:11, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Thanks. But I live in Derbyshire now, having gone to England in 1970 and not returning (except of course for vacations, family visits, etc. When I was a young boy there was a sub-tropical jungle behind the houses across the road, complete with possums, snakes, banyan trees, and of course alligators down by the Miami river. Played there a lot with a boy named John Christmas (whose mother was named Mary). Doug Wellertalk08:32, 27 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Ah, sorry, I think I knew that but was thrown off by a userbox. Fewer gators in Derbyshire, I reckon. The banyan trees were incredible. The first one I saw was in Palm Beach, where they are ubiquitous and strangler figs make for ripe metaphor. :) As for Christmas, I know it was pretty uncommon then for women to keep their name when getting married, but Mary Christmas?? Hard no. Lots of names you can't have with that surname: Mary, Wyatt, Eve, Nicholas/Claus, Carol... There's a name I hear on Fox News every December, over and over. Must be a seasonal anchor or something: Theresa Warren-Christmas. — Rhododendritestalk \\ 21:14, 27 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I've so appreciated you sharing this part of your life with us. You've been in my thoughts and I'm sad to hear you're talking about palliative care. Whatever decisions you make in the days and weeks ahead, I know they will be ones that have been deeply thought through and which will reflect the way you've lived your life. I'm just glad that we continue to have your presence here onwiki. Best, Barkeep49 (talk) 19:22, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Hi Doug Weller! Not much one can say in these situations that hasn't already been said and that hasn't already occurred to you (several Big Bad Words spring readily to mind...). Hopefully it'll be kinda nice to reflect on how many people are thinking of you and that in some way you've made a difference to all the people who know you personally, as well as to the Wikipedia project and to the rest of us who are used to seeing your edits while we're sorta amiably faffing around this neck of the woods. Big Virtual Hug, --Technopat (talk) 19:45, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I cannot think of any better way to express my support than to second what Barkeep49 said. Whether your philosophy on cancer is to fight it, treat it like a chronic degenerative condition, or just embrace not-give-a-fuckism, please know that I and all the others commenting here support you and wish for the best possible outcomes. EvergreenFir(talk)20:15, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, thank you for all the work that you have done for Wikipedia. Thank you for being willing to make tough decisions. Thank you for keeping us informed about your illness. Thanks for being you. Cullen328 (talk) 20:23, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I can't find the words to express how the wonderful support from you all and others now and in the past has meant to me. It will help me sleep well tonight. Ironically the thought of cancer itself rarely affects my sleep, it's only the effect on others and right now wondering how I will be able to die with dignity - at a time I choose and where I choose that costs me sleep at times. In the UK you aren't allowed to die with dignity. So if I can't die at home with my wife I'm thinking that when the time comes - and I am going to try to make that a few years from now - I may be able to take one last holiday with my wife somewhere that I can die with dignity. Doug Wellertalk21:25, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I'm always glad to see your signature on a talk page or to find your name in a contribution history, however old, and that will carry on as long as I'm editing. Now you're giving us even more reasons to be grateful. I hope you take every holiday you want! Thank you. NebY (talk) 22:50, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I'm sorry to read this news. I hope you are able to have your wishes. I was always taught to get it in writing and to get a second opinion. I've also heard a lot of interesting things about the new treatments nowadays like CAR-T cells and immunotherapy, IANAD, but it's a shame and saddening to read this even without a lot of details. Anyway, we don't know each other well but I just wanted to say it's always been a pleasure to interact with you on here and I wish you the best, and will fondly remember your work on Wikipedia. Andre🚐23:29, 26 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
So sorry to hear of this Doug. You were one of the first admins to help me out and guide me when I started taking an interest in contributing. In fact you might have been the first admin that I would refer others to if we disagreed or I was unsure what to do. I wish you all the best and keep fighting! GiggsIsLegend (talk) 16:40, 24 July 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, please research and pick up a copy of the Book, titled "The China Study" I'm sure it'll help you learn more and get a better understanding about our relationship to food and diseases we suffer from. 174.81.53.148 (talk) 15:41, 11 January 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Best to you Doug, hang on in their man and hope you remember the very high regard you are held to within our community; you have lead by example and have always been encouraging. Ceoil (talk) 00:32, 27 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
An icon and an inspiration. Thanks for sharing this with us - it makes me feel that WP is not only a source of information, but also a community. You are surely in my thoughts and prayers. Rsk6400 (talk) 16:53, 27 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
The day you get an entry added to the "List of deceased Wikipedians" will be one of the saddest days this website will have seen in a long time. I hope whatever time you have left is free of pain, and that you are able to die with the dignity that you deserve. Thanks for everything you've contributed to Wikipedia over the years. Hemiauchenia (talk) 19:40, 27 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, you're one of the editors I most respect, and seeing how your handling this makes my respect even greater. As has been said above, I hope you enjoy your life without pain and go on your own terms with dignity. ScottishFinnishRadish (talk) 01:01, 28 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, devastating to read this, and I don't know what to say that hasn't already been said so well by other above. I've always found you to be a rock here on Wikipedia, and your tireless and immensely helpful efforts are very much appreciated. Jeppiz (talk) 01:35, 28 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I will never forget all the times you gave me support and advices in my previous iteration. Thank you for this and for making WP a better place. I can only wish you all the best. K. Lone-078 (talk) 09:41, 28 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Run through a comprehensive list of expletives, dear Doug, and that will sum up my feelings on seeing this bitter news. I am deeply moved by your references to your wife. As many of us will know from experience, it is what we manage to say to each other, brightly under strain, in reviewing a shared past, that tasks our minds in such terrible situations. I am assured that in planning for what future remains (the months and years will be, ineludibly, seamed with an elegiac tone of finality), you will work to ensure that your spouse will have many more memories to add to those of your rich life together as you also find time, with your characteristic donative generosity, to patch with further quilts of tender recall the hard ledges of survival for the other victim here who will, prospectively, grasp for them if or when they find themselves forced to endure the icy rockface of widowhood.
Before posting this, I took a Persian nap (Herodotus), worried it might sound intolerably pompous, intrusive and rhetorical, rather than spontaneous. Two dreams, in one of which you figure as a lone archaeologist probing a dark desert for spoors of a lost past, and the other where you emerge as a Virgilian cicerone as I stumbled along native bushland. On waking, I thought ‘what the fuck’. Hang in there, whatever. As others have noted, remarkable things can crop up in science. There’s always hope.Nishidani (talk) 17:31, 28 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I'm not sure what a Persian nap is, but one thing I really want to give to Wikipedia is a new article (I have written only a handful at most) and have started a draft at User:Doug Weller/Racism in pseudoarchaeology. I'm getting tremendous help from some knowledgeable folks at the Facebook group Fraudulent Archaeology Wall of Shame. I've been putting this off for a long time but all the wonderful people above have made me feel I must get it done. Doug Wellertalk17:48, 28 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Herodotus 1:133. I can't give you a Perseus link because my main computer crashed weeks ago, and accessing anything from this minor one, antiquated but minimally functional, is nigh impossible. I'll bookmark that project and recommend to others here that they also do so and help where possible.Nishidani (talk) 18:01, 28 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Writing new articles is the most fun part of this project (and one that I don't spend enough time doing). This isn't in my area of subject-matter expertise, but let me be the first to volunteer if you want a second pair of eyes for copyediting, formatting and the like - just let me know. GirthSummit (blether)18:27, 28 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, what a terrible thing to hear. I'm so sorry. It's said that a man never truly dies until his name is forgotten; yours will live on here in the memory of everyone on this project. With love, ♠PMC♠ (talk)23:29, 28 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I send you my best wishes, confident that you will find the strength, courage and capacity for clear thinking that you will surely need to deal with this, just as you already have in your invaluable contributions here. Best regards, Justlettersandnumbers (talk) 23:45, 28 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Nothing I could say feels adequate. But you will be greatly missed, and I hope you are able to find some measure of happiness in the time you have left. And if there's anything Wikipedia-related that I can help with, don't hesitate to ask. A. Parrot (talk) 18:45, 29 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I've only just heard this news, Doug, and I am deeply sorry. 'Keep buggering on', as Churchill used to say when things were bad. Cheers - SchroCat (talk) 19:43, 29 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Jeez! All any of us can do is praise the work you've done here and (I suspect) elsewhere; and let you know how much it's been appreciated. --Orange Mike | Talk19:49, 29 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Only just heard of this. A terrible situation but I know you'll face it with strength. Please take some strength from the rest of us. Reach out to the community if you need anything even if it's just moral support. Canterbury Tailtalk12:19, 30 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I felt the need the last few days to jump on here and get an update from you but the weather had not allowed for this. It has not diminished my thoughts towards you and as I was able to get on I came here to see this. My heart is heavy with the fact you are still suffering so much through pain in your body but I am inspired by your journey at the same time. Your courage, your strength, your tenacity are all indescribable. Your Song is such a beautiful melody and I believe there are lyrics yet to be written that will have such a lasting legacy and be inspirational to so many. That may be a Wikipedia article or perhaps your wisdom passed on to listening ears desiring to grasp on to the depth of knowledge you have accumulated throughout your life. One thing is certain. You have made a lasting impact and you continue to do so with every breath taken. My hope, my morning songs are for many more days of impact here with us. You are incredible as an editor and an amazing human being. You are an integral part of my daily thoughts. I am beyond honored to know you in even this limited capacity. I count it such a blessing to have even the smallest interaction with you. May my words be an encouragement to you like so many others mentioned here and may you find strength to continue "soldiering on" as you put it. I call it the Color Green, surviving, yes, but finding a way to thrive despite the circumstances. Take that and let it feed life into your Song. May the Color Green fill and flood you, my friend. --ARoseWolf15:53, 30 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I have some experience of what you are going through. I have no words, except to say you are in my thoughts and I do hope things go better for you. As ever, David, David J Johnson (talk) 20:32, 30 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Sorry to hear this Doug. Best luck anyway, things could be uncurable but still stay for very long. Just do whatever you find comfortable.--Ymblanter (talk) 11:49, 31 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Just saw this, and wanted to add my name to those who will be thinking of you, and hoping for the best. You're most definitely one of the best admins here, and I appreciate your keeping your hand in as much as possible. Beyond My Ken (talk) 14:04, 31 January 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Hi, I realize we've interacted under questionable circumstances, since I don't quite fit in to the culture here. But, you seem alright, and I wish you the best of luck that your circumstance permits (whether that's more years of life, or a painless, dignified end, whatever the fates decree). I should know what it's like to deal with a rare, deadly medical condition -- at least in my case, I've got a cocktail of meds to commute my would-be death sentence. Godspeed! Xcalibur (talk) 04:55, 10 February 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Hang in there, Doug, and more than ever, do what gives you pleasure. I hope some part of that includes your contributions here–pretty sure it is–but take care of number one, regardless. I have benefited enormously from your thoughts and interventions in the past, and selfishly, I hope to do so still, for as long as is feasible. We all have a limited time left, we just don't feel it quite as keenly. Times like this make me think about it, though. You're much in my thoughts. Mathglot (talk) 02:07, 16 February 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Mathglot, although I feel that agreeing is often a bit boring: I want to agree with you that we all have limited time left (if you can accept that, you are close to wisdom), and that I, too, have benefitted enormously from Doug's thoughts, interventions and example. Doug, in Cuba people often encourage each other saying "Ánimo !", meaning "Courage !". Rsk6400 (talk) 08:51, 16 February 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Dear Doug: I am saddened, of course, to hear the news that the cancer has proved incurable. I was hoping you would beat it, but illnesses are not privy to the hopes and wishes of humans from either near or afar. To carry on with equanimity and honesty in the face of life's exigencies is all we can hope for. That you seem to be doing not just with those qualities, but also creatively. All too often an off-handed mention of "real life," and usually just "RL," constitutes the sum total of our humanity we allow others to peek into on Wikipedia. All too often editors whose edits have given us a convincing, even inspiring, picture of the living breathing and feeling individuals they are, disappear anonymously from our presence. So, you have already bucked the trend. As an all too mortal human myself, I will look forward to reading whatever aspects of your journey you choose to share with us. As you must know, I have looked forward to your timely interventions on various archaeology or history-related pages on Wikipedia. You may not know that I have silently noted the pithy, no frills, language that has accompanied your interventions. For both, I offer my thanks and my admiration. Fowler&fowler«Talk»15:54, 16 February 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Hello Doug, I am very sorry to hear this news. You have done much for this community and site, for which numerous people have shown how important you are to them. I hope that you and your family are doing well in such trying times. I hope things can change and get better. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. 3Kingdoms (talk) 05:02, 18 February 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Thank you for sharing this, and really sad to hear about it. Wish you a lot of love to share with your loved ones, and faith and peace of mind. May springtime be nice and wonderfull! Joshua Jonathan -Let's talk!03:11, 19 February 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Came here to see if there were any updates, so sad when I realised what it was. Hoping for the best in whatever time remains and that whatever you decide to do comes true. My thoughts are with you and your family. Nil Einne (talk) 18:28, 19 February 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I waited way too long to finish writing this. You were one of the first admins I ever ran into on here, and an absolute paragon of what an admin should be. How much you care about this site and the time you've spent on it, has been an absolute blessing. And nothing can ever take that away from you. I am so honored to have been able to see you do that work, and hope many of us around here are able to take it forward. When I see a page that you were "watching over" (e.g. the only person (or one of few) responding to POV edit requests, keeping the article in good condition, etc.) I've been adding it to my watchlist. I hope others will do the same. I'm also so blown away by the poise and grace you're showing here, and in this announcement. Nothing about this is easy, I cannot even imagine how hard it is to think about or to write. And I just hope I can even approach that level of peace or grace if I get this sort of news. Thank you for everything you do around here, and thank you for continuing to be just an all around good guy. — Shibbolethink(♔♕)15:46, 21 February 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I am so saddened to read this. I do hope that whatever may come, you have a strong support network of family and friends to guide you. You and yours are in my thoughts. RickinBaltimore (talk) 15:49, 21 February 2023 (UTC)[reply]
God bless, Doug. Praying for you. Thank you for being one of the bright lights on Wikipedia. If there is anything we or I can do, let us or me know. Love ya. Softlavender (talk) 02:12, 28 February 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, every single time I've seen your name it has been good. Thank you for your gracious and wise work for Wikipedia. Holding you in the Light, Clayoquot (talk | contribs) 18:07, 1 March 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I stand in awe at all the work you've done. Above all, know that we all here care deeply for your wellbeing, and couldn't be any more grateful to have shared this space with you. A big hug to you and your wife as you go through this, and I dearly hope that your departure will be on your own terms, with dignity. But in the meantime, as Mathglot said, please put yourself first. You more than deserve it. DFlhb (talk) 20:10, 1 March 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Know that you are truly one of the great and good editors here; I have immensely appreciated your contributions. Wish the very best to you and your family, Huldra (talk) 23:48, 2 April 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Oh, Doug. You have given me the gift of knowing that this project really is a worthwhile endeavor, since it is clearly in the hands of some of the most incredible people, that I have never actually met in person (that I would have liked to, if at all possible). If it has to be about goodbye, well, then let it be among the very longest, and most painless, goodbyes that have ever occurred to anyone. Your admiring fan, StonyBrookbabble21:49, 28 April 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I've only read this a few days ago along with all the excellent comments. Doug, I too noticed your excellent work on WP long before I finally created my account. Traces of your contributions seemed to be everywhere. At a moment when I had more time to dedicate to WP and finally heeded the recommendation of another editor to create an account, I think that you were the first administrator I visited to announce it. I'm less active here these days, but will never forget the joy of participating a bit with you on this project. Several comments above express better whatever more I could say. I'll still emphasise a point several of them make, about the importance of quality living, and the thanks for all that you've done here. I'm also glad that you allowed us the opportunity to share this: unfortunately there are editors I only could thank after they were gone. You're also one of those I sometimes check for recent activity and it's always a "yay" moment to see recent contributions. —PaleoNeonate – 13:03, 24 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I’m lucky, the 30% chance chemo would work includes me!
As straight continuous chemo would impact my quality of life, I’m having a two month break, will be reassessed then. I want to keep up my 5 km a day on the treadmill! And going out occasionally with my wife on dog walks. Doug Wellertalk17:56, 25 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doctors have to play safe and give the worst case scenario. If you really want to see who the next president is, you probably will (though the shock might send you into regression!) My wife has leukaemia and found the chemo was so interfering with her quality of life that she gave it up. That was four years ago and she hasn't regretted it, despite the inevitable restriction of her life-style. Enjoy everything you can with gratitude. Sweetpool50 (talk) 18:58, 25 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I am hoping for continued successes, Doug. You are an amazingly strong person and I appreciate you more every day. You inspire others which is an incredible gift. Keep walking the treadmill and going out with the wife and dog. Keep exploring life and paying attention to all the details around you. That has helped me through many, many difficult days. You are truly a Rainbow of vibrant colors and you leave everyone in awe at the beauty of your LifeSong. Bless you, my friend. --ARoseWolf19:07, 25 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]
5k a day on the treadmill! What an inspiration! My wife complains that I spend far too much time on the couch reading, but really snoozing with the cat. This is the kick in the pants I need. Thank you Fowler&fowler«Talk»20:30, 25 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Per Donald Albury. That news has made my day, no, my cold rainy Italian spring suddenly lighten with joy. Hang in there, Doug.Nishidani (talk) 20:41, 25 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Checking my watching after a couple of days and this section makes it all worthwhile; an oasis amidst the muck and bramble. Keep up whatever you are doing, Doug! Abecedare (talk) 21:01, 26 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I hope there is a repeat of this, you were once incurable too! For what it's worth, there's not much confidence in the accuracy of the oncologist's prognosis. I hope that whatever the outcome, you will not think yourself as a burden, from each according to their ability, to each according to their needs! If this in some way influenced your decisions, it is good to reconsider. Sir Kenneth Kho (talk) 21:05, 5 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
If there is still hope for prognosis, I support balancing quality of life and prognosis, by planning the breaks and chemos. Cancer is a journey, there is no straight path. Sir Kenneth Kho (talk) 22:02, 5 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Great news indeed! Best wishes, Doug Weller. You will definitely see who wins the next US presidential election! You are an inspiration; in fact, 5km a day inspired me as well! Ekdalian (talk) 06:05, 29 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, you are an inspiration, and perhaps you - and your wife - like the music of our 6 May concert, Misatango and Te Deum, that we found inspiring. I received the link to the YouTube video last night - too tired to share then. I put it there and on my talk page.--Gerda Arendt (talk) 06:41, 31 May 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, assuming that the next US president will be elected in 2028, I really hope that you will see it. Your walking and your editing are an inspiration. Rsk6400 (talk) 10:07, 1 June 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Another instance of keyboard ruining (see JMF's comment below) ! How did you know that "American Pie" is a favourite of mine ? Rsk6400 (talk) 06:07, 9 June 2023 (UTC)[reply]
@Rsk6400: The odds seem pretty good, but I didn't know it was. I see from the article on it that McLean finally explained the song, debunking some popular ideas. Doug Wellertalk07:41, 9 June 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I am constantly amazed at what medicine can acheive. But even more amazed by what individuals like you who will fight to bring about the best possible outcomes can do. This is wonderful news, and I wish you the absolute best. - Bilby (talk) 10:24, 1 June 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Thanks all. Still ok, doing 5k a day on my treadmill. Went out to eat with my daughter to a Vietnamese restaurant in Nottingham, lovely soft shelled crab. I’m guessing I’ll be starting chemo again next month. Doug Wellertalk19:38, 14 July 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Hi Doug, this is good news. I've always respected your work as an admin and an editor, and your ability to inject good humour to cool down hot discussions. Best wishes. Mr Serjeant Buzfuz (talk) 22:49, 4 August 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Even tho we haven't had many interactions, your contributions, compassion and commitment have truly served as one of the guiding beacons in helping me become a better editor. :) By the looks of the above signatures, I'm seeing this quiet late but I hope things have gotten better since then! Sending my thoughts and prayers to you and yours and thanks for being a wiki-role model! Best, DantheAnimator06:14, 27 November 2023 (UTC)[reply]
User:Dantheanimator that’s very kind. I feel stronger than I have for a long time but the cancer of course continues to grow, so three months of chemo soon. My experience wiyh it last time was good, no problems except hair loss. Doug Wellertalk18:54, 27 November 2023 (UTC)[reply]
@Doug Weller I've not been around for a few years and I've come back and am really sad to hear this. You're a good person and I'm devastated that this is what you're dealing with. Wishing you peace and light. Babakathy (talk) 19:54, 25 December 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Agh,it's been archived. Another round of chemo ended about 6 weeks ago, stopping the growth. Which of course has started again, so more chemo in a few months. I don't know if the side effects will get worse, butmy prognosis a couple of months ago was 18 months. I feel ok, week but then I'm old!5 k a day on treadmill. Doug Wellertalk16:41, 9 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]
You are ever in my thoughts. Keep moving. Keep stepping. Keep walking. You are the miracle here Doug and I am thankful to see you on the project every day. Stay strong. Singing a song over you. --ARoseWolf16:51, 9 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I don't even remember how I got to your talk page, but I just want to say I wish you all the best.
People have mentioned this comment to me in an unrelated discussion, and I want to come by and say: I am deeply sorry for asking such an inappropriate question. It is a question my family often asks close family members, but I should have recognized that there is a significant difference between asking those you know well and random internet strangers on Wikipedia. It was not my intention to make you feel uncomfortable. There is not a whole lot I can say, so I will leave it at this: my sincere apologies. Best, HouseBlaster (talk · he/they) 18:42, 22 June 2024 (UTC)[reply]
@HouseBlaster I'd completely forgotten about this. I'm not sure why I didn't respond to your earlier response. It's an excellent question. I don't have an answer. I do know that if I had a lot of friends living near me, I would want to have a party before I died. I remember seeing a movie where a Shakespearean actress who was dying did this and I thought it was a great idea. But I don't know how to transfer it to Wikipedia. Do you have any suggestions? Doug Wellertalk08:35, 16 July 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I can tell you why you didn't respond – you are a busy guy :)
What if you create a red link article and as a community we try to get it to FA, sort of like a potluck? Different editors can work on different sections of the article, sort of like a barn raising, bringing their own talents. Or perhaps your (talk page stalker)s have ideas? Best, HouseBlaster (talk · he/they) 03:47, 17 July 2024 (UTC)[reply]
@HouseBlaster: Nice idea, although I can't think of anything I'd want to create. In fact, a bit like your barn raising bit, that's the way Pinxton Castle was created. And it looks as though I, or rather we, found virtually all the sources, I can't even get it to GA, let alone FA. Doug Wellertalk08:55, 17 July 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Editor of the Week
Editor of the Week
Your ongoing efforts to improve the encyclopedia have not gone unnoticed: You have been selected as Editor of the Week in recognition of your career of great contributions! (courtesy of the Wikipedia Editor Retention Project)
It is with great appreciation that the members of the Editor Retention Project bestow the Editor of the Week award to Doug Weller, a scholar, a gentleman and the sort of Wikipedian we all wish we could one day become. One of the truly bright lights and inspirational editors in the WP community, Doug has faced his recent health diagnosis with his usual thoughtfulness and reason. He has made massive contributions over the years, especially as an administrator, helping to make Wikipedia a more trustworthy source by rooting out misinformation and vandalism. We will never be able to measure the strife he has saved us from, because one never notices the strife which never occurs. A perfect example of his commitment to WP is his welcoming of a new editor just a few days ago. Godspeed to you, good sir. A trusted, productive and helpful editor whose talk page is filled with thanks and well wishes from fellow editors. Thank you for the example, the kindness, and the things that we will miss.
You can copy the following text to your user page to display a user box proclaiming your selection as Editor of the Week:
I’m humbled and literally in tears. This means a lot to me. Without all the support I’m getting from the community I would be struggling. Doug Wellertalk21:19, 23 March 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Thank you for your dedicated service and many varied contributions in different roles to Wikipedia. Your work is greatly appreciated. isaacl (talk) 21:29, 23 March 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Very much deserved DW. I could copy paste every word of praise already written here but I'll just second them instead. Best regards Doug. MarnetteD|Talk22:51, 23 March 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Let's settle on Editor of the Decade, and a strong early contender for Editor of the Century (although given that that won't be awarded for another 77 years, the chances of any of us being around to hand out the gong are rather slim). GirthSummit (blether)23:38, 23 March 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Seconded, Doug. You were an early guiding light for me here at WP over a decade ago now, literally at times keeping me on the Golden Path. You are a rare and glorious soul. Heiro00:38, 24 March 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Hello Doug. It has been a long time since we interacted, and I only just read the news you posted above at the start of the year. I wanted to echo what others have said above (both in this thread and the earlier one). Wishing you all the best. Carcharoth (talk) 19:39, 25 March 2023 (UTC)[reply]
We haven't interacted much, but I wanted to add my congratulations and sincere thanks for all the work you have done and continue to do here. Editor of the Years without a doubt. Best wishes, Eddie891TalkWork13:24, 26 March 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Hi Doug, it's been a while since we spoke and I wanted to stop by to congratulate you on your Editor of the Week award. Your work is appreciated! –xenotalk18:20, 27 March 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Agreeing with Dudley Miles' "Wikipedia is a much better place because of your contribution" - you really make a difference! Rsk6400 (talk) 19:50, 2 April 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Long overdue for a man who for so many of us has set the gold standard for wikipedia volunteers, and indeed for his fellow admins. And thanks to the editor of the week team for summarizing Doug's presence here so eloquently.Nishidani (talk) 08:55, 3 April 2023 (UTC)[reply]
I'm sure others were quite deserving of this award at the time they got it but no one is more deserving than you, Doug. Thank you for your continued contributions, your steady presence and your words of wisdom. --ARoseWolf19:34, 14 July 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Always thinking of you, Doug, at least when my mind's not distracted by blips, such as the defeat of Australia in the Fifth Test. Keep well. We absolutely must be around for next year's Olympics and the November 2024 US elections, at a minimum.Nishidani (talk) 17:04, 1 August 2023 (UTC)[reply]
Called in for scan earlier than expected. Seems although the growth isn't much it's concerning. Offered choice between nothing for a few months to give me a better quality of life or chemo soon, the type I had first which causes neuropathy so no cold drinks, ice cream, handling all the frozen food that fills our freezers, etc. Also probably make me weary so I should spend less time on treadmill and last time the last treatment (there are 4, 1 every 3 weeks + steroid pills, knocked me out for a while. I've opted for chemo, bad as it is, just hoping it might add a few more months! Luckily I've got my diary from then which might help me. I'm feeling great right now, stronger than for a long time. But I decided doing the chemo is a good way to fight it. Doug Wellertalk12:24, 24 May 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Sending thoughts of love and care your direction today, Doug. May peace and healing find you. May all the colors surround you like a warm blanket emanating life essence into you. I dance to your Song once again, my friend. --ARoseWolf15:30, 30 July 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Stay strong Doug! Thank you for the update. Please keep your hands out of the ice cream, let it melt first before feasting. The very best to you, Netherzone (talk) 00:00, 25 May 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I found a variety pack of astronaut ice cream a while back for someone who loved the stuff. I'll see if I can send one to you if you tell me where to ship it. :) — Rhododendritestalk \\ 14:59, 25 May 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Wishing you the best as you continue your fight, Doug! If you're feeling strong now, that's good for going into it from a high point. ButlerBlog (talk) 01:09, 25 May 2024 (UTC)[reply]
My family to your family: we wish you well and the best of days ahead. Thanks for keeping us up on your physical struggle. We are not merely accounts here. BusterD (talk) 14:19, 25 May 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, you have always personified for me everything that is good about this place. Your enthusiasm for life is addicting—an absolute inspiration. I wish you and yours all the joy in the world! You are The Wikipedian. StonyBrookbabble04:34, 29 May 2024 (UTC)[reply]
You're a very strong person, Doug! I'm glad you made this choice but would have completely understood if you'd opted for the easier route. As always, you set a brilliant example for the community. Generalrelative (talk) 18:24, 30 May 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I didn’t read this until just now. Yeah, you are an absolute inspiration and a brilliant example for the community. Rsk6400 (talk) 18:41, 3 June 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Sorry to hear about this. Jus noticed this thread. I have prostate cancer myself. I lived through radiation and chemo and steroids for 5 years with variable success until last fall when I was given 2 years of expected life, they suddenly found a miracle cure for me and now I am on great progress. So my advice is not to lose hope. Take care. --Altenmann>talk16:42, 20 August 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Sounds like a horrible experience. Really pleased they found a cure! I’ve got boring Stage 4 colorectal cancer. A major liver op left a bit behind and I’ve got some in my lung. Doug Wellertalk18:30, 20 August 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Dear Doug, Many thanks for the update. As always, fingers and toes crossed for you. Stay strong. I have my next scan scheduled foe late Dec/early January. Susie sends her best, as ever; David David J Johnson (talk) 15:52, 14 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
No prognosis today but chemo shrunk my liver cancer
My consultant is off sick so I couldn't get a prognosis, only that the chemo has worked. I'm very glad for obvious reasons and hated it, 2 weeks after my last pills I'm still weak and just as bad my taste buds are affected so a lot of food is inedible. Hopefully a prognosis next Thursday. Doug Wellertalk16:59, 3 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
This is fantastic news Doug. I did think about asking for an update last week, but felt it might be too forward of me. Good luck for Thursday! Knitsey (talk) 17:06, 3 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Congratulations that things are going the right direction. I feel your pain on taste. It was months after treatment until root beer tasted right for me.
I hope your strength returns soon, be careful with your balance.
Months! I hope not for me. I’ve also got Parkinson’s but that is under control plus I did some balance work with a YouTube video from British Columbia Parkinson’s so I’m pretty good with balance. Doug Wellertalk17:37, 3 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
It sucks, still remember losing my normal sense of taste. My spouse swears that seeing me staring with sad eyes at an open bottle of AW root beer was the point that the entire medical situation truly became real for me. I was working full time during part of my recovery after treatments, hopefully you are in a place where you get the rest that your body needs.
Once this is all behind you, that metallic tinge will disappear, your taste will return and so will your strength. It's just miserable but you're gonna get through. RCSCott91 (talk) 00:02, 4 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I know this is incredibly unpleasant but hang in there. The medical advances in oncology in recent years have been astonishing. Prayers... -Ad Orientem (talk) 17:11, 3 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
So good to hear; hope you now gain a bit more strength, a lot more taste and a prognosis that confirms even more strongly that you made the right decision - unsurprisingly! NebY (talk) 17:49, 3 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
That is good news. Hoping for good news in terms of prognosis and that the difficulties you endured are worth it. I hope you can regain your strength soon! ButlerBlog (talk) 19:02, 3 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Hope this is the first of many good news. You are a very important member of our community of practice. Do you know about Bruckman's book? After explain your contributions and pointing this discussion to my wife she says: "Send hugs from Brazil to him!" Ixocactus (talk) 19:28, 3 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Because generally you suggest a lot of interesting readings. This is an very interesting book about WP and I suppose that you knew it. I learn on it about our community of practice. About the successfull management of online communities she quotes (p.25): “... how to welcome your visitors, instruct your novices, reward your regulars, empower your leaders, and honor your elders”. Watching you over the years, I see that you have played all these roles. You are now a honored elder. Thank you for the good examples. Stay strong. Cheers! Ixocactus (talk) 23:16, 4 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, that's excellent news, and I'm happy for you. I think it's a credit to your superb strength of character that you are, after all of this, still doing those balance exercises. Please know that there are so many people here who are thinking of you! --Tryptofish (talk) 20:54, 3 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Haven't been active in a long-ass time (not likely to get more active in the future either), but I think this warrants a note that I'm keeping you in my thoughts, and I'm glad to hear you're making progress. ᛗᛁᛟᛚᚾᛁᚱPantsTell me all about it.14:00, 4 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Sorry to hear you're going through this, but grateful for the positive news. =) Currently trying to help my elderly mother navigate ovarian cancer and it's a daily challenge. Will keep you in my thoughts! —Locke Cole • t • c14:55, 4 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I'm really sorry you have to go through these painful moments, I was not aware of that. Hopefully, you will fully recover. Thinking of you. Good luck.---Wikaviani (talk)(contribs)15:15, 4 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I've been having chemotherapy which would have made this Christmas, which will be my last, really terrible. My oncologist has agreed that I should stop the chemo, which is a relief and hopefully I'll get stronger in the next few weeks. The bad news is that we are talking months, not years. I need to be clear that I am resigned to this. And I certainly don't want to be a long term burden to anyone. Doug Wellertalk14:41, 30 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I'm sure you and your family will make the most of the next few months Doug. You've absolutely done the right thing for yourself and the family. I hope things ease up now you've stopped the chemo, and you can concentrate on the time you have. You've been an inspiration to this lowly, newish editor. Knitsey (talk) 16:07, 30 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, you are model and mentor to many of us here. I truly hope you have a wonderful Christmas and New Year. May your remaining time be joyous and peaceful. EvergreenFir(talk)16:19, 30 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Thank you for all the help you've given here over the years Doug. I know you've definitely made working here easier for me at times. Enjoy the time that you have. KoA (talk) 17:24, 30 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
One gets these approximate warnings. My partner lasted another four years after stopping chemo, then a secondary cancer took them out. Naturally you'll be missed eventually, but the important thing is staying positive. Sweetpool50 (talk) 17:36, 30 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I am very sorry to hear that and hope you last longer than you expect. You no doubt have many achievements, although the only one I know is your massive contribution to Wikipedia. Dudley Miles (talk) 18:37, 30 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
You have so much to be proud of, in your exemplary contributions to Wikipedia, and in your exemplary courage in real life. I'm happy that your quality of life will be better. --Tryptofish (talk) 20:07, 30 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Sorry to hear this news, but I hope stopping chemo gives you some relief and quality time with the people you care most about. Thank you for all the generous contributions you've made and keep making to this project. Yuchitown (talk) 21:33, 30 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I don't know what to say, Doug, except thank you for all you've done for WP. It's a gift to the world. I'm sure you'll make the best of the time you have left, and all the best to you—you've made a difference. Carlstak (talk) 00:33, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Echoing others here; I hope your remaining time can be more pleasant and that you have a good holiday season. Thank you for everything you have done. Elli (talk | contribs) 02:20, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Enjoy your last few months, Doug. You have been great on Wikipedia, especially with the suggestion to change my talk page notice discussed at the Teahouse. Thanks for everything. PEPSI697 (💬 • 📝) 02:39, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I have so much admiration for you as a person, editor, administrator. You have worked hard to make this world a better place, and your work for the encyclopedia has been stellar. You have done this with kindness and generosity. Thank you for being such a great teacher to so many of us here. May you be comfortable and surrounded with beauty, and those you love. Netherzone (talk) 02:50, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Thank you for sharing this and thank you for all that I've learned from you. You were the first administrator I had any interaction with and I have learned so much along the way. Your work here is appreciated by so many members of the community. While I'm sure you have made the world a better place elsewhere, there are many of us here who only know that you've made Wikipedia a better place for your work here. Thank you for that. I wish you the best and hope that the holiday season is a fine one and that you regain your strength to enjoy and experience each and every day to the full. ButlerBlog (talk) 12:53, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
You are fortunate. Ok, nobody wants to get cancer. But, we all must die eventually. From a pragmatic stand point, you are quite fortunate. You've gotten to live a long, long life. Cancer absolutely sucks. The silver lining is you get a chance to say goodbye, and people who love you get a chance to say goodbye. Making a choice to go off chemo to achieve quality of life with what time is left is a hard choice to make, even if it makes logical sense. I hope the days you have left are good days! I can't say any of us will be remembered by name on this project 10 years after we leave it (and we all must leave eventually). I can say some of us have a positive impact that will be felt for a very, very long time. Yours is inarguably among those. --Hammersoft (talk) 14:34, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
User:Hammersoft That's very kind. There is an other silver lining. I've got Parkinson's. If I didn't die from cancer I would slowly deteriorate in mind and body and my loving wife would have her life taken over by caring for me, even when she was too old to do it. Doug Wellertalk14:54, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, in the last year, your model of behavior (your "witness" some might say) has made an enormous and positive influence on my life. As I suffer a minor indignity or a visit to MY doctor's office, I keep in mind how Doug chooses to take it on. You stayed with us and made yourself not only useful, but also a meaningful example to others. You didn't just "go away" as some of our fellows must needs do. You seized the day. We have never met, Doug Weller, but you have changed my life for the better, through your many continued and fine contributions to the pedia, especially these to your talk page in the last year. I love you, brother. I am better for knowing you. I will not forget you. BusterD (talk) 15:03, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Apologies for that, Doug. We really hope you can recover quickly. If not, we'll wish you well. We pray you won't ahem... die. I know, I didn't want to say it, since it is quite rude, but again, we're hoping for your recovery. No matter how many years pass, we won't forget the hard work you've done for us. Thank you for being a part of the community for years, Doug. NoobThreePointOh (talk) 15:04, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
God bless Doug, all of us, and basically every reader on Wikipedia, are in your debt and will remain so for as long as this website is around. I'm sure out in the real world your impact has been even greater, and the people who have gotten to know you and call you a friend are among the luckiest people in this world. nableezy - 15:38, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Fuck my enforced retirement for this. As you know, I'm pagan to the core. That didn't stop me, when my wife lay dying and had memory problems, from saying, with devotion, her prayers for her at her bedside. Pagans simply don't have an adequate vocabularly for this, so I can only say, heartfeltly, God bless, dear friend.Nishidani (talk) 16:48, 31 October 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I hope whatever time you have left is free of pain and that you are able to die with the dignity you absolutely deserve. Seriously, thanks for everything you've done over the years. Hemiauchenia (talk) 03:15, 1 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Belatedly joining others in expressing my deep respect for how you have faced and fought cancer while finding time to continue to work here, my great sadness that it's come to this, and my hope that your remaining days—however many—are joyful and peaceful. Yngvadottir (talk) 08:54, 1 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I am happy to have volunteered and to continue to volunteer along side you at this project. I think Wikipedia's positioning as a bulwark against nonsense is due in no small part to your constancy in making sure we don't go beyond the best sources. jps (talk) 11:51, 1 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Goodness. Thanks for letting us know Doug, I hope that you are able to enjoy the time you have left, and draw some solace knowing your wife won't be left caring for you with your Parkinsons's. I also hope you know how much admiration so many of us around the world have for you. GirthSummit (blether)13:18, 1 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I don't interact much with other users here -- and I don't usually remember who I interact with -- but I recall some pleasant encounters with you. One of the things I've thought of advocating is a survey to see who is the oldest (in age) editor of Wikipedia. You'd be close. And so would I. Smallchief (talk) 14:59, 1 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I don't know you, and we never had any interaction with each other AFAIK. But I'm seeing some people here that I highly respect appreciate your presence among us and be saddened by what you're going through and I can only afford to feel the same — 🧀Cheesedealer!!!⚟19:19, 1 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Not just a legacy but a legacy to be damn proud of. Glad you'll be able to enjoy some higher-quality time with loved ones (and sandwiches). All this talk of sandwiches makes me remember two great sandwiches I haven't had in years. I don't eat bacon anymore, but I remember loving this buffalo mozzarella, bacon, avocado, and lettuce on some kind of toasted freshly made bread. Had it at some fancy restaurant in Boston ages ago. Blew my mind. Then there was the "Tempeh Tantrum" at a vegetarian place in Raleigh -- marinated tempeh, pesto mayo, [fake] bacon, avocado, and lettuce on sourdough. Didn't even know what tempeh was the first time I ordered it. Both restaurants have long-since closed. Is it common to have strong sandwich-based memories? :) — Rhododendritestalk \\ 21:16, 1 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Absolutely. I remember a bocadillo de pulpo (octopus sandwich) I had at some no-name place in Malaga 38 years ago; octopus sautéd in olive oil with garlic on fresh bread. Oh man. If chopped barbecued goat with bones-in slapped between two pieces of white bread counts as a sandwich (the bread was only to hold the meat together and sop the sauce), then Ed's barbecue in Gainesville, Florida, served one of the most memorable sandwiches ever, especially if you ordered it with the "nuclear" sauce (pronounced "nukuler" in Southernese). We'd drive an hour and half to get some. Carlstak (talk) 02:53, 2 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I'm so sorry to hear this. You've truly left a big impact on Wikipedia and I've admired you for years at this point...thank you for everything. ~ TailsWx05:19, 2 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I'm reminded, Doug, of a tribute I read to Bertrand Russell in the Journal of Philosophy. I was sitting in a library in the mid-1970s, when leafing through the journal, I happened upon it. I still remember the last paragraph, which was a quote from Russell's own, A Free Man's Worship of nearly 70 years before: "From that awful encounter of the soul with the outer world, enunciation, wisdom, and charity are born; and with their birth a new life begins. To take into the inmost shrine of the soul the irresistible forces whose puppets we seem to be--Death and change, the irrevocableness of the past, and the powerlessness of Man before the blind hurry of the universe from vanity to vanity--to feel these things and know them is to conquer them."
I thank you, Doug, for your fight, for your honesty, for your acceptance, and for showing us the way. Although I am some kind of neo-Darwinist myself, I like to think that we will all meet again from time to time, perhaps in the mists of the Rift valley where our human enterprise had begun a long time ago. I wish you all the best, and I thank you again. Fowler&fowler«Talk»21:48, 3 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
This is hard news. May you be blessed and supported by the love of family and friends as you prepare to enter the next room. I will light a candle for you in church. -Ad Orientem (talk) 01:44, 4 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Dearest Doug, Not the best news. You are always in my thoughts and I'm still routing for you. Please keep us all in the frame. My next tests are next month - will keep you informed. As ever, David. David J Johnson (talk) 17:10, 4 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Thanks for sharing this with the community. You mean a lot to a lot of us. BTW: Hoping for good news from your home country on 11/6 (or some days later). Rsk6400 (talk) 19:33, 5 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
we've had scant interactions but you've been ever-present as long as i've been editing. thank you for your contributions, and happy holidays <3 ... sawyer * he/they * talk21:51, 5 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
You make a great example for us newbies to follow. I’m glad to hear you don’t have to go through more chemo, I’ve got a lot of respect for how you’re dealing/have dealt with this. Please give your wife a big hug Kowal2701 (talk) 08:37, 29 December 2024 (UTC)[reply]
We've only interacted a few times over the years, but I know you to be a firm (as needed) kind, and decent person.
Doug, I was thinking of you and so came here, where I learned that your lifetime is approaching its end. I remember your fairness and kindness in dealing with me. May all goodness and blessings be with you.
Really sad to hear those bad news, you are one of the best admins I ever interacted with here, on Wikipedia. I keep you in my thoughts, may God bless you.---Wikaviani (talk)(contribs)22:31, 5 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I remember you said earlier that you wanted to see what ended up happening in the US elections. Oh well, sorry it wasn't better news. --Tryptofish (talk) 18:26, 6 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Since my Wikipedia hobby is writing biographies on obscure activists, I come across a lot of people who died in the darkest hour. It's a melancholy thing, to wonder what they thought about it. I suppose you don't have to wonder any more. But I can tell you what I wish I could tell all of them: the dawn really does come after all, here and in the next. -- asilvering (talk) 19:38, 9 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I haven't watched or read the news anywhere since 9pm-ish last Tuesday when a sinking feeling set in. (Eight years ago I had recklessly taken out a bottle of champagne ...)
Although I bought my first book from Amazon in June of 1994, when I thought it was a bunch of wild women selling books out of a garage in California, I cancelled my subscriptions to Amazon prime and Washington Post. And if I had had a Tesla, I would have driven it into Charles River. I'm seriously wondering if large swathes of the US have become preserves of misogyny. Across the pond the culture might have been luckier. Elizabeth I, Mary (of W&M), Victoria, Elizabeth II, might have tempered unbridled maleness and paved the way for female prime minsters. Fowler&fowler«Talk»21:23, 12 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I'm sad but not surprised to see this—it's remarkable that you've held out this long. I've said this before, but your support when I was starting out as a serious Wikipedian meant a great deal. I know we didn't interact all that much, and what interaction we did have was mostly businesslike, but whether or not I did enough for you to consider me a friend, you were a good friend to me. Your dedication to Wikipedia, and to combatting the relentless tide of misinformation in this world, should be an example to everyone. I know I will keep you in mind as long as I'm on Wikipedia, which I intend will be as long as I am able. I hope you have all the joy you can in the time you have left. A. Parrot (talk) 15:31, 8 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Thank you for your friendship over the years. I pray that the last months of your life are filled with happiness and joy with loved ones by your side. Please know that you are cared for and that your contributions to the world, especially here at Wikipedia, are meaningful and valued. AnupamTalk21:52, 12 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Hi Doug. In my absence, I'd missed these latest updates. I'm terribly saddened to see this news, even though I'm sure it's the right decision. You've always been one of my most trusted colleagues, even if the majority of our time on Arbcom was a case of ships passing in the night, I've always respected you and really appreciated the times we have discussed things / worked together. I wish you a wonderful yuletide with your family and please know that your legacy here, and in the wider world, will be great. WormTT(talk) 13:39, 13 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Oh shoot, I am sad to hear this. I'll miss you too. Thank you for your leadership and example here. I sincerely hope you enjoy the time you have left with friends and family. ~Awilley (talk)21:23, 13 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Doug, I've only just seen this and I don't really have the words, other than to express my admiration for how you've dealt with this situation over the past years. I hope that however long you have left with us is as fulfilling and comfortable a time as the circumstances allow. Thanks for everything - you really have set the standard in so many ways. Cordless Larry (talk) 20:06, 27 November 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I just learned about this from another editor's talk page and am deeply saddened. We haven't interacted in years, and I doubt you remember me, but I do remember you from my early days when I did NPP and AV stuff, and am sorry to hear you probably won't be with us much longer. I'm guessing you aren't religious—few Wikipedians are—but hope it means something to you that I will be praying for you. —Compassionate727(T·C)19:32, 12 December 2024 (UTC)[reply]
I was very sorry to read this. I don't think we ever interacted directly before, but I've long considered you one of the pillars on which the English Wikipedia rests. No words. Espresso Addict (talk) 05:26, 28 December 2024 (UTC)[reply]
Sincerely wish you and your family all the best Doug, and I'm very glad you were able to celebrate another Christmas with your wife. God bless, and in this world and the next I hope you have peace and happiness. nableezy - 17:46, 23 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
Thanks for the update, Doug. That seems somewhat encouraging from your last update? My best wishes for you and your wife, and I hope for quality of life from palliative care. ButlerBlog (talk) 19:16, 23 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
I want to add my kindest wishes here too. You're very nearly Wikipedia's sixth pillar and I have difficulty imagining this place without you. Simonm223 (talk) 20:13, 23 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
Another six months for our sixth pillar. We all value whatever time you choose to spend with us at this website, and it makes me happy that you are continuing to do so. All the best, --Tryptofish (talk) 23:25, 23 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
We collaborated a little bit 2 years ago (how the time flies), and I was nervous given that it started with me being warned (I deserved it). However, you were very pleasant and willing to collaborate. Given that this was the first time that I had worked together with someone else on Wikipedia, I am glad that you set me off on the right foot and implicitly encouraged me to stay. For that, Doug, I thank you. Warmest wishes to you and your family. JuxtaposedJacob (talk) | :) | he/him | 03:38, 24 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
Doug. You know how much I respect you. Please enjoy your life with your wife and your real life loved ones every day, every week, every month, and as we all hope, every year. The fact is that every human faces the inevitability of death. It is just more imminent for some of us. Cullen328 (talk) 05:13, 24 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
I'm praying for you Doug. Seeing you on the talk page of many different articles is what inspired me to become an active editor here. I'm proud of you for fighting for so long. The Knowledge Pirate (talk) 09:37, 27 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
Hi Doug, I haven't been around that much on-wiki this past year, so I am only just now seeing all of your updates. I am so tremendously sorry. Please accept my best wishes as well—you have been one of this community's longstanding leaders for years, and your contributions will resonate with us and the world for generations to come. Mz7 (talk) 11:01, 29 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
In my 10 years on Wikipedia, you are among the handful of true role models (not just here but in everyday life) that I never anticipated I’d acquire when I started toodling away fixing overcapitalisation in plane-crash and food articles to soothe my uncomfortable self to sleep after surgery. You and I haven’t even directly interacted much, but please know you’re deeply admired and cherished by a random 53-year-old trademark lawyer in Las Vegas. Take care, dear Doug Weller. Julietdeltalima(talk)11:14, 29 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
Thanks all - in my haste, I forgot to say that without the Wikipedia community, the support of my lovely wife Helen Walland, and probably the 6km I do a day on my treadmill (which also helps with my Parkinson's, I don't know how I'd cope.
I am not able to find the exact wikipedia policy on whether the term Climate change "skepticism" is biased, can you guide me to the policy? Thanks and regards. Theofunny (talk) 13:39, 28 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
Striking Conlfict of Interest in TaskForceMajella article
The TaskForceMajella article stikes as being a striking exanple self-promotional article and Conflict of Interest as the person (User:Jpvandijk), who contributed a signficant part of the article openly admits on his talk page, that "He was for six years Team Leader and Project Manager of ... and the TaskForceMajella Project (TFM)". Aside from the comments posted on the article's talk page, I do not know what should be done about it, but someone else might want to look at it. Paul H. (talk) 19:18, 30 January 2025 (UTC)[reply]
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